One of the employees, Maria, asked me, "Do you know what the opposite of a Fred is?" While I know what the opposite of Fred-like behavior looks like, I'd never put a name to the kind of person who might act that way. "The opposite of a Fred," said Maria, "is a Derf! That is Fred spelled backwards." I recently had a reader write me and say that she works at a company that "sucks the Fredness right out of you!" So I started thinking about these anti-Fred people and organizations. They practice the Derf Factor. And what might The Derf Factor be? The principles would look something like this: First, nobody can make any real difference so why try? Secondly, relationships are messy-leave me alone. Third, you can find the easiest way to do anything with the least amount of effort if you think long enough. And finally, each day it is just the same old same old. Thinking in terms of the opposite of the principles of The Fred Factor is almost funny in its negativity. What keeps this little exercise from being comedic is that we all meet people who live those principles. They might not verbalize it, but their behavior suggests a conscious or unconscious belief in them. I don't know of
anybody who wants to be a Derf. The alternative of being a Fred is much more enjoyable,
not just for the person who is the "Fred", but for those they live and
work with.
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Help us acknowledge the Freds that we all encounter on a daily basis whether through work or in our lives outside of work. Please use the nomination form found here to tell us your Fred's story. And please, tell a story not just, "I nominate Joe because he's a great guy," but tell us what actions of Joe's make him a Fred. This kind of information will help us all become more Fred-like by providing us specific ideas and actions that we can model in our own lives. It's a Fred-like activity in and of itself! Fred Inspires... Here's Pam's story not about a Fred in her life but about how the Fred Factor is helping her not only be a Fred but to look for and develop Freds.
Thanks Pam! We suspect that you are, indeed, a Fred!
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